A recent episode and all too often occurence sparked this post. Here is what I learned and how to avoid falling into the same trap I did, and do regularly!
It's entitled, "How to Lose a Date with Hubby in 10 Minutes" Here are steps 1-5...
1) Start reading into every little thing your husband is saying and doing on the way to the date. Aka: Get really over analytical and super sensitive {saying things like “Are you okay?”, “ What’s wrong?”, “You look like you don’t really want to be here…”}
2) Continue to let your feelings dictate the evening… feelings of frustration inside you are blurted out in words, “Let’s just sit here…”, “Or what about this place…”
3) Instead of letting hubby decide on the place to sit and eat you offer your suggestions in harsh tones and sighs of frustration while also rolling your eyes. {Just flat out emotional manipulation.}
4) Act like a woMAN and decide that sitting outside in the cold is best {even though you are absolutely freezing!}, but at this point you are just “punishing” him for the way he is acting and how indecisive he is being.
5) You have now succeeded in making the both of you feel miserable. {Congratulations!} You are angry because he is acting like he doesn’t want to be on a date with you, and he is angry because you are being so stinkin’ controlling and emotional.
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